A lot of us learn a lie early on. It sounds reasonable and even inspiring. It won’t hurt as much if I get there. There is always a place to go. The push. The record. The start. The connection. The number that shows up on the scale. The finish line that promises relief. And for a while, it works. Or at least it looks that way. You keep busy. You stay on track. You keep winning. People say nice things about you. You look like you work. Even impressive. But success doesn’t make grief go away. It waits. And sometimes, when you do well, it gets louder. This is the uncomfortable truth at the heart of Steve Gaspa’s The Second Chance . It’s also why the book hits so hard for readers who have been quietly chasing goals to deal with their problems. Not because they are shallow. Not because they don’t want to take responsibility. But because it seems safer to keep going than to stop. The myth we don’t question enough We don’t talk enough about how often success can numb our f...